Planning My Prison Break
Mar

This is a guest post from Barry at BookBlogBusiness.com
Remember the TV series Prison Break? You know, the one where Michael Scofield and Lincoln Burrows (possibly the coolest name ever) broke out of prison and inspired a nation of followers who sat in front of their TV’s rooting for convicted felons week after week? Remember how long the build-up was to the episode when they finally went over the wall?
I feel like I’m in that long build-up period. I know the day is coming when I’ll make it over the wall…again.
My First Prison Break
I’ve been many things in my life: a window washer, a janitor, a student, a doctor (yes, the medical kind), a college Dean and President, and a teacher…but the badge of the heart has always been inscribed with ‘Writer.’
I’ve never really wanted to do anything but write. But as we all know, writing is a tough way to make a decent living. At least it was until about 7 years ago when the Internet and blogging both opened up a world of potential for writers of all kinds.
After leaving private practice for a medical teaching position, life was good but my personal life was changing rapidly and in a space of about 6 months I became a single parent with full-custody of my then 7 year-old son.
I started blogging in my spare time and immediately recognized it as a way to write and make money. So I launched a website and over a period of two years, built a list of subscribers that totaled around 500. This is before Twitter and Facebook, when Aweber and reader email were my only real marketing tools.
I wrote a book called Becoming Irresistible: How To Pack Your Copywriting Business With 5 New Clients Every Month. Packaged as a book, eBook in PDF, and a few audio files, it sold for $77 and $97 depending on the package.
I followed that with a copywriting course, The Irresistible Copywriting Course, and sold them both from a blog called (you guessed it) BecomingIrresistible.com (no longer active).
Everything was going pretty well. I had a forum, a membership site, and paying clients. I followed it up with a second eBook called Never Ask For Referrals…Ever!. It also sold well.
Then, for a variety of reasons, I lost my confidence. I gave up. I closed down the sites, moved to the beach in Rio Del Mar about 80 miles south of San Francisco and took an office job as a proposal manager. That was five years ago.
My Final Prison Break
I now find myself planning my final break from the office prison I live in each day. I won’t go into the various reasons behind my decision to take a job, but suffice it to say that my youngest son had some health problems that needed attention and I needed good insurance plan. He’s healthy again, almost as tall as I am, and is becoming a very skilled guitarist.
So, how do I plan to escape over the wall? Luckily for me, I never stopped blogging or writing. My latest venture is BookBlogBusiness.com. It’s a site that caters to writers and authors who want to write full-time and get paid for doing it. It focuses on helping others in ‘prison’, break free and live their passion.
My revenue streams come from three main efforts:
- Consulting: I trade my time for an hourly rate on occasion
- Teaching: I teach eCourses to help others make their own prison break
- Leverage: Offer both original and affiliate products.
I’ve also done my homework this time. Because I want this Prison Break to be my last, I decided to get the training and knowledge that would lay a foundation upon which I’d build.
So, I took Yaro Starak’s Blog Mastermind course, a 6-month blog training course. I also completed a year-long program in Internet Marketing from Psychotactics.com in 2008.
I know how to create original products, launch them successfully, but my greatest reward comes from helping others do the same thing. I really enjoy teaching as well as writing and I see video as being an integral component in my eCourses as they are released.
I can’t wait to get started full-time.
Setting My ‘Over the Wall’ Date
But I do have this thing about leaving my day job. It’s secure even if it doesn’t pay me much. So I’ve decided to act instead of plan forever and set what I’m calling my ‘Over the Wall’ date. I’m not looking to be back on the inside.
I want to break free and stay free.
I want to live with freedom as my highest value. I want my son to know that the bastardized version of The American Dream isn’t for everyone; that it’s OK -even essential- to set your sights on whatever wall is appropriate, set an ‘Over the Wall’ date, and then do nothing but prepare for that date by planning your escape and your life on the other side.
I wrote a post recently on B+B=B$$ called “How to Overcome Fear and Just Do It”. It poses the question, what would your life be like if you just went full-bore, balls to the wall forward with your plan to break free and live the life you imagine? (Kind of like Steve is doing here on ETG?)
I know what the answer is. It would be Freakin’ Phenomenal!
And so I’ve set my ‘Over the Wall’ date as June 30, 2011.
Who’s with me? 🙂
Barry W. Morris is an author and teacher and writes the blog Book+Blog=Business . He’s single-dad to the next Jimi Hendrix and Grand Dad to two of the cutest little girls on the planet.

David
I’m with you Barry! I’m in the process of setting my break free date and I’m pretty sure it will be before the end of 2011.
Your story is interesting because you were “free” for a while but returned to the grind. I think it just goes to show that nothing is certain and even if any of us are able to end our grinds, that doesn’t mean everything will be this fairy tale story that will never end.
The only thing we can guarantee is that we will keep trying. Good luck Barry!
Harriet`
I like the picture you’ve used here! I do the same when I’m sat in some of my lecturers, try to work out if the windows are breakable so I can get out!
Steve
Yea, it’s exactly how I feel all the time….always looking for a way out!
Anthony
Nice to hear your story, Barry. I like the idea of an “over the wall” date.
Steve, love these guest posts. All these stories. It’s addicting! Great reads.
Steve
Thanks Anthony,
I am loving these guest posts as well. I’m being introduced to some awesome people with some truly inspiring stories. I plan to keep them coming. I am also planning on starting a Podacst soon and will be doing interviews with former grinders as well…
Paige Burkes
Barry,
My Over the Wall date is Jan. 1, 2012. Like you, I love to inspire people to think past how we’ve all been programmed and know that we can all live our passions.
In 1997 I took a “sabbatical” for 2 years – some of the best years of my life – from Corporate America, not really knowing if I would go back. I did and have been in it reluctantly. I now know how to get out and stay out and am busting my butt to get there ASAP.
My 3 little ones stay with Dad during the day while I got to my J-O-B (he has a very flexible business and is committed to being there for them). It breaks my heart when they plead with me to stay home and be with them during the week. That’s exactly what I want and what I’m working hard toward. That and living my passion of inspiring others to really live their dreams.
I just started my blog a month ago and have my game plan together to meet my Over the Wall date. I’ve learned so much and love how the process is changing me in many positive ways.
BTW – For anyone thinking that they have to have a job to get decent health insurance, it’s not true. Find a good insurance broker or just go online. You can apply for your own individual policy directly with any of the big carriers and the cost is less than you think. I’m paying about $300/month for family coverage. You can also see if any organizations that you’re a member of offer discounts. Many do.
Set your date, make your plan and live the plan every day. The baby steps you take every day will add up in less time than you think and freedom will be yours. Be persistant and don’t ever give up. This is YOUR LIFE we’re talking about!
Steve
Paige,
Your story sounds so much like mine. My ultimate goal is to have an online business which generates enough passive income to allow me to stay at home with my 2 daughters. My dream is to have the freedom of time to be able to work from anywhere and spend as much time as I want with my family.
I haven’t set an official “over the wall” date but am working on it. As far as insurance, I do not get health insurance through my employer and have had to purchase an individual policy. My family plan is through CareFirst BlueChoice and we pay about $330 per month. While the premium isn’t all that high, the deductible is. Also, the policy itself sucks. It doesn’t cover nearly enough and we had originally intended it to be in place in case of a serious illness or injury.
A good policy with a low deductible is insanely expensive (like $700-$1000) per month. I don’t have that kind of extra cash flow. We have spent a lot of time shopping around for policies and it’s very difficult to find a good, quality policy with moderate premiums and low deductibles….
Barry
David,
Thanks for your well wishes. And back at you, Mate. 🙂 What you say is true, all we really have is the present. If we do our best and accept the results we work for, with that we can be content. Good luck to your on your ‘over the wall’ journey.
Barry
Anthony, it’s fun to tell it. 🙂
Barry
Paige,
Your comment encourages me because I’ve been tied to the insurance plan at my job more than anything else. I’d like to contact you for a recommendation if that’s OK. 🙂 Good luck to you and I hope you are home with your family sooner than you plan for. 🙂
Paige Burkes
As an update on the health insurance, I’m covered by Humana and have a relatively high deductible ($7500) and my family is pretty healthy. We keep a credit card available just in case we might ever have something catastrophic happen and might be hit by the entire deductible at once. High deductibles keep the monthly cost way down.
The broker I use (and have used for about 15 years) is David Ryan at American Insurance Consultants 800-598-5885. He provides great service and has always helped us get the best rates as our family has grown. I derive no benefit from recommending him here.
If you Google “health insurance” you’ll see ehealthinsurance.com and some of the big carriers which are all reputable. You can buy direct from most of them.
As a bit of a warning, if you have any kind of health issue, this may not be the best road for you as you will have to fill out a health questionnaire that covers the past few years and the insurance companies do investigate. If this is you or someone in your family, check with any organizations you’re a member of or could become a member of. Frequently professional organizations will group their buying power and get a group plan (which is essentially what you’re a part of as an employee). For example, I’m a CPA and my state association of CPA’s offers something like this. If you can’t find a group, you might look into creating one. The more healthy members, the lower the rates.
Hope this helps!!
Steve
Paige,
Thanks for the update. I am actually looking into brokers to help sort through all the different options for us. I will call David today.
Steve
Good luck to you Jada. Keeping positive is critical to getting what you want out of life!
Steve
Jada,
Glad you are enjoying it!
Your point about being stagnated is a good one. We can often feel trapped or stuck in a lousy situation, but we CAN change it. Often, it’s very difficult to do, but if you recognize that your happiness is suffering, the you MUST change it.
You have nice, clean look to your blog and it looks like you are off to a good start. Are you planning on creating a business from this blog? Is your goal to ultimately replace your job with income created from it?