Pursuit Of A Grind Free Life…Again
Mar

This is a guest post by David Damron at LifeExcursion.com
I have seen the light folks and it is amazing.
Back on March 13, 2009, I left the grind. Yes, I still remember the exact date because, well, it was one of the greatest days of my life. I left the 9 to 5 and spent a few weeks in Hawaii before moving to Australia as well as traveling through New Zealand. Yes, I actually did it.
Then July 12, 2010, I rejoined the 9 to 5 sloths.
So, you ask, “Why the hell would you go back once you have achieved the life you wanted?”
Let me explain…
Out of the Grind
Between my junior and senior year of college in 2005, I did some volunteer work and a lot of partying in Tasmania and the rest of Australia. Prior my Australia adventure, I worked full time at nights and took between 15-18 credit college hours.
Needless to say, I was drained going to Australia. However, after my Australia journey, I had found my true passion, my true love. It was spending as much time with the Australian people on their land as possible.
The only thing was that I came back stateside and talked a lot about moving to Australia, yet took few steps to make it a reality.
Long story short, I fell to the grind. I took a 9 to 5 which gave me a comfortable life. I was able to pay my bills, pay for my marathon race expenses and, most importantly, buy A LOT of beer.
Life was comfortable. But all along, there was this little pull in my head that kept me thinking of the dream of living in Aussie. There was no amount of comfortable living that made the Aussie itch go away.
I knew I needed to leave the grind, but couldn’t.
That was until I sat alone in my apartment and realized I had to get rid of this itch. No matter what happened, I had to try. So, I jotted down a note on a scratch paper that read, “What Are You Doing Today, To Be In Australia Tomorrow?”
I posted this note on wall exiting my bedroom so that every time I left that room I was reminded of my dream.
Roughly 6 months later, I gave my employer a 10 week notice (yeah, I am a nice guy) and left on my journey March 13th.
I moved to Australia and my girlfriend, who’s now my fiancée, followed and we lived it up. I became the Aussie bum I dreamed of becoming. We had accomplished a dream and loved life.
Life could not be any better and, yet, I would eventually return…to the grind.
Back to the Grind
On July 12th, 2010, I ended up back at my employer I had left just 16 months earlier grinding away. You ask how this happened? It’s not a simple answer unfortunately.
While in Aussie, I realized I didn’t know what I wanted to do there. I had no drive to support myself beside the savings I had built. In other words, I quickly realized I was missing the part that I should have addressed the night I wrote that note and posted it on my wall.
I hadn’t established a means to support this lifestyle long term. Thus, I eventually ended up back at the grind starting over from scratch.
As of writing this, I still am at the grind. Mind you, I did create a revenue stream upon returning to the States that could have supported me living in some random Thailand beach hut.
However, my fiancée made the call to start a masters program in Eastern Medicine which meant I was going nowhere and now would need to financially support us for a few years. My online income definitely was not going to cut it.
Thus, I headed back to the grind.
Now, I could complain about going back to the grind, but it really isn’t the grinds fault. It is my own. My choices and decisions have led me back there. Admission of guilt is one of the highest qualities I look for in others.
We are all guilty of something and admitting to the fault is an honorable thing to do. The thing I admire more is someone who admits guilt and does everything in their power to correct their error.
Thus, the story continues…
Pursuit of Grind-Free Life Again
As Steve is trying to do here at Ending the Grind, I am pursuing that free life as well. My journey from grind to freedom the first time around was important because now I know it can be done.
Sure, I failed and returned, but I know what it takes. I have learned from previous mistakes and know how to make such a life a reality for the rest of my life. On top of that, I am a prime example that YOU can learn from.
As I pursue this life again, I want to give you some helpful pointers in the pursuit. Now, I am not 100% correct in the approach, but the following are the ways I learned to free myself from the shackles of the cubicle and live a life I wanted as well as my advice to prevent you from having to return to the grind as I did. Enjoy!
1) Set a tangible goal – For the longest time, I dreamed about moving to Aussie, but it didn’t become a reality until I committed myself to what I wanted and was as specific as possible.
2) Be a minimalist and maximalist – Limit the things you have and want in your life and start maximizing the things you want. Sam Spurlin of The Simpler Life has coined the second term as he focuses not on a minimalist life, but a life that maximizes the things/experiences he wants.
If you are able to rationally approach the things you have in your life and eliminate that which doesn’t help you reach your end goal, you will be closer to your goal then you may realize.
3) Start building multiple income streams – As we see more and more companies seeing us as numbers and cube-dwellers, the fact that so many people rely on one sole income source is ridiculous. Yes, it’s absolutely fricken’ ridiculous. No income stream is safe.
That’s why building even one or two backup income streams is so crucial to your goals. Even if you don’t want to leave the grind, you should start establishing some second stream of income so that when they let you go (they will at some point – whether you believe it or not), you don’t lose your entire income. (P.S. This doesn’t mean you have to start a blog that your wife doesn’t understand.)
4) Set up a get-the-hell-out-of-there fund right now – Not in a couple hours. Not tomorrow. Right now. It can be as small as $1 in cash that you put in an envelope under your bed. Just do it.
This small action will get the wheels turning on how you can start putting more and more money away to make your dream life a reality.
J. Money at Budgets are Sexy built a $50k get-the-hell-out-of-there fund and in December 2010 was able to follow his dreams of being his own boss when his “secure job” let him go.
Once again, it doesn’t matter how small the amount is, just the act of starting this fund is what is important.
Honestly, I could go on and on for hours on end about what to and not to do. These were the key points that I feel will make your dream a reality.
Hopefully, through the articles here and, possibly, my small influence, you will start acting towards your dreams to leave the grind instead of just dreaming. Trust me. The guy in the cubicle next to you is doing enough dreaming for all of us.
It’s time to stop the dreaming and start executing.
David Damron, the writer of Life Excursion, has lived in Australia, traveled through much of Europe and New Zealand, and preaches the importance of simplifying one’s life to maximize the aspects the have true meaning in his life.
He continues his pursuit of the grind-free life by developing products that inspire life altering action.

Greg
Sometimes you have to take a step back in order to move forward. Good to see that a return to the grind hasn’t deterred you away from your ultimate goal.
All the points you made are excellent. You have to eliminate the unnecessary things and maximize the necessary that will help you in achieving your goal, no matter what it is. This is something that many people struggle with controlling. Deferred gratification.
David Damron
Hey Greg—
Deferred Gratification! You couldn’t have summed it up better.
We often say that the small things in life are what makes us happy. There is truth to that, but I think the big a** things make our lives more incredible. For example, my journey overseas has brought a much larger impact on my life than 10 people saying ‘Hi!’ to me or someone buying me lunch. Sure, those small things are wonderful, but DEFERRING my GRATIFICATION of my actions in the work I did to allow myself to fulfill my journey overseas was well worth the sacrifice for the major reward.
Thanks for your thoughts Greg….Hope you enjoy LifeEx!
David Damron
Life Excursion
wilson
That’s right Greg, step back to move forward I like that.
Hey David, first of all great post. I’m in the same journey as you guys, building streams of income. I did quit my job not long ago (almost 2 years) killing all my expenses that I didn’t need helped me live with my savings for a few months and building a few niches has also help me generate some side income.
I think we can do what we really want, like you said, we need goals and action plans too. We can set a million goals but if there’s no execution/taking-action there is no goal.
Excellent post once again, it should teach us and inspire many more people.
Thanks,
Wilson
Adrienne May
I love this article. I would love to get out of my current job but right now I am still working on setting the goals and making the plan. I have a son, a fiancée who also has kids so we just can’t up and move… so “i don’t want to work at a mindless desk job” and “i want to be my own boss” are not concrete enough for us.
It is harder of course when you are also working 9-5…cause you have a full time job and we have kids…so who has time to work on other projects?! but we have realized the importance of making it a priority now… and its a work in progress I guess!
David Damron
Hey Adrienne –
Your thoughts are so common to hear. What worries me are the last two words “…I guess!”
(Hold on to your seat cause here I go changing your life)
Never guess. Always know that you, your fiancée, and your kids deserve more. There is no guessing with that. If you ‘guess’, you will never get out of the rut of a 9-5. Like you said, a 9-5 is necessary for support right now, but there is something you can do EVERY DAY that will get you one step closer to a brighter day, a more enjoyable life. You just can’t guess it any longer. You have to know it.
I say all of that not to be mean or harsh. I say it because I know your life. My parents never saw past the “…well that would be nice”. They worked hard at their 9-5’s but didn’t sacrifice in other areas (i.e. watching tv, living unhealthy) to afford themselves greater, grander opportunities.
Don’t settle. You can have the life you want. It is going to take a whole hell of a lot of work, but well worth it.
Adrienne—please e-mail me at ddamron44 at gmail.com so I can have you be a part of my big goal project coming up. Send me One TANGIBLE Goal and I guarantee I will change your life.
Thanks for your thoughts…
David Damron
LifeExcursion
David
I think you will get where you want to be, especially if you have “failed” twice and still haven’t given up. That is a pretty good sign you are determined and won’t stop until you’re chilling on the beach in Australia!
David Damron
Hey Like-Name Sir-
Thanks for the encouragement.
I definitely have failed…a lot. However that has put me in a mindset that I am determined to succeed and when I do…ITS BIG TIME.
Would love to hear about your story, your “failures” your triumphs David so please do hit me up on twitter or at Life Excursion.
David Damron
Life Excursion
David
Hit you up on Twitter and e-mailed you about your eBook (I couldn’t figure out how to get a copy!). Looking forward to reading your blog.
David
Debbie Beardsley
Love the honesty and inward thinking that seems to be in the blog world! It is refreshing.
I too have “commitments” here that are keeping me from completely breaking free. So what we have decided is to take mini breaks until we can completely do what WE want to do!
Your comment about multiple streams of income has really got my mind thinking. . .
David Damron
Hey Debbie—
I am glad to hear that I got ya thinking. Now…I would love to see you start planning and doing which it sounds like you are headed in that direction (See my new project Destination X coming soon regarding the DOING part)
Commitments are weird things. I love committing to goals, but hate committing to sacrifice. Who doesn’t really? I love the results that come from sacrifice, but hate the action itself. I guess that is the ultimate drawback to success…but really, there are no drawbacks to success. 🙂
Well wishes in your journey and hope you come along for the ride with me.
David Damron
Life Excursion
Stacey Herbert
Hi David, this was a top qaulity post here. I really admire your honesty and the way you explained through on your situation, how life and our failure to plan, ahead can sometime change things right before our eyes.
I remember the day I left to spend 1 whole year away from it all, offically just living.All the months spent leading up to it, I finally felt like I had something amazing coming on the horizon. It made the days when I was clock watching at work bearable
Sometimes we all have to do our time in the Grind, but isn’t it great to have something to look forward to
I really enjoyed this post, thanks
David Damron
Hey Stacey –
I appreciate your feedback! Thank You!
I think NOT setting a TANGIBLE goal is the biggest problem most people have. When I say tangible I mean “I will move to Nicaragua on October 1st 2011” instead of “I want to move to Central America in the next few years.” There’s a clear difference between the two and, unfortunately, we often overlook the importance of such goal setting. I am working on something that will hopefully fix that 😉
I hope your journey is going well. Connect on Twitter and over at Life Ex so we can see your success grow.
David Damron
Life Excursion
Harriet`
It sounds like you had a great time on your time out of the grind! Just think about it everytime you hate what you do at work. I always get through difficult rehearsals through daydreaming abou happier times!
David Damron
You couldn’t be more right Harriet! I think about the grind-free life everyday I head to the grind. It is exactly what motivates me.
Thanks for the encouragement!
David Damron
Life Excursion
Stella
Thanks for sharing, David (and Steve). Why this post especially resonates with me – because you show that there’s no quick fix to freedom. Ending the grind isn’t about one magical step but rather it’s an ongoing process that takes time, effort, and awareness.
Btw, love the avatar, David. I have the same photo!
Steve
Stella,
As much as I wish ending the grind was quick and easy, it’s far from it. Each person will take a different path to find their happiness and although it does take a lot of time, it will be sooooo worth it 🙂